Paciotti family longs for answers
Kelly Grinsteinner
The Daily Tribune
Wednesday, June 14th, 2006 11:33:25 AM
HIBBING — Since the passing of his mother, Betty, in 2004, Greg “Elmo” Paciotti routinely visits his family at Maple Hill Cemetery. Every other day he makes the trek there to water the flowers placed between his parent’s headstones.
“I go there to talk to all of them,” said Paciotti. “I do miss them, and they are my family. I fill them in on my day, update them on the case, tell them how Heather’s doing and how much I miss them.”
Also on his mother’s headstone are the names of his sisters, Susan who passed away in 1977, and Barbara, who has been missing since 1969. A date of death has yet to be added below Barbara’s name.
“It makes me sad that there’s no date there,” said Paciotti. “But I get a sense of satisfaction being able to talk to them all at once.”
Paciotti longs to know what happened to his sister, and to add a date to the stone.
“It’d be nice to have that closure,” he said. “I’d like to be optimistic in thinking she’ll walk through that door, but I know realistically that won’t happen.”
Barbara disappeared 37 years ago today. It was in the early morning hours of June 14, 1969, that she was last seen on Howard Street in downtown Hibbing. The 20-year-old was visiting her parents for the weekend and in celebration of Father’s Day. She had been residing in Minneapolis, where she had worked as a secretary for an investment firm for about a year.
Paciotti had planned to meet with a former boyfriend that evening. She was dating Jeff Dolinich, also a former Hibbing resident, at the time of her disappearance.
While she and her roommate were driving around Hibbing that night, the pair came across Dolinich who was also hanging out downtown and bypassed him. Hours later, Dolinich approached their vehicle while paused at a downtown stoplight and began talking with Paciotti.
Dolinich asked Paciotti to go with him. She agreed, and they left in his father’s 1964 green Oldsmobile. Paciotti was never seen again.
Later that morning, Dolinich was located in Minneapolis and questioned by law enforcement about Paciotti’s whereabouts. He told police that he had been drinking that night and acknowledged leaving Hibbing with Paciotti.
He went on to say that they had argued, that he had struck her and that he knew she was dead. He also said he did not know her whereabouts.
A few days later, the family received a mysterious, remorseful letter from Dolinich. To date, no body has been found and no one has ever been charged.
Dolinich now resides in Coon Rapids, Minn. He spoke briefly with investigators about the case in December, but has since retained a lawyer and is no longer cooperating with law enforcement.
The Hibbing Police Department announced the reopening of the case on Dec. 9, 2005. A month later, the Minnesota Bureau of Criminal Apprehension (BCA) added a $50,000 reward to the case being made available through Spotlight on Crime.
The media blitzes led to roughly 50 new leads and several searches on foot and with bloodhounds since early May. The department has taken in more than 150 leads since the department and the BCA reopened the case in 1998.
Hibbing Police Investigator Dale Wright said he was aware of the approaching anniversary, adding his initial aim was to have the case wrapped up by now.
“I would have liked to have had a resolution by that date, but we’re still proceeding in the right direction,” he said. “We are going to be doing more searching and following up on the remainder of leads.”
Those places of interest include more areas along south Highway 73 and also a section of property near the Dolinich farm off Antonelli Road. Wright said the searches will likely be done within the next month or so with the assistance of the St. Louis County Rescue Squad.
“We have come a long way, and we’re getting closer to exhausting all of the leads of the investigation,” said Wright. “We’re hoping to have the investigation completed by the end of the summer.”
Resolution, as all involved define it, is finding out what happened to Barbara — either by locating her remains or getting Dolinich to confess.
Wright said Dolinich remains the sole suspect at this time, adding he remains optimistic.
“My confidence is up, as it always is on these cases,” he said. “The interest from the public and people calling in keeps giving us leads to work on. They are able to tell us about 1969. They’ve been helpful by giving us a better picture of how things were then.”
Wright said he’s taking the case very seriously, even personally.
“This is one of those cases that when you work it, you want to work it hard,” he explained. “You want a resolution and are determined to get it. I am personally involved.”
Having gotten to know the family adds to that tenacity. Wright keeps in touch with them on a weekly basis.
“This is the kind of case any good investigator would want to be assigned to and want to solve,” he said. “It’s given me an extra desire to work harder. I’m not letting go until we’ve gone through everything. Until we’ve exhausted all of our efforts. I can’t help but be personally involved.”
Anyone with information is asked to call the Hibbing Police Department at (218) 263-3601 or the BAC Cold Case Unit at (651) 793-7000 or toll-free at 1-888-234-3692.
Paciotti and his aunts Pat Field and Judie Lyman speak very highly of Wright. Just last week the four met face to face to talk about the case. The three learned several unknown facts and intimate details about the case. Wright also took Fields and Lyman to where the searches had been conducted.
“It was an eerie, surreal feeling to be there knowing they had looked for her there,” said Fields about visiting the search sites. “It made me wonder that much more. Is she out there? Have we just not found her yet? Will we ever find her? It could be the last place or area Barbie was.”
Despite not having answers, Fields and Lyman said they are elated the case was reopened and that it’s moving forward. Learning new details on the case helped rebuild their confidence in reaching a resolution.
“I want to know everything about the case I can. I just can’t get enough,” said Fields. “It’s just been so many years.”
Lyman concurred, adding she’d like to see the case go to trial, with or without Barbara’s remains. That decision ultimately lies in the hands of the county attorney.
“I feel we’re closer to a day to hold a memorial service than we’ve ever been before,” said Fields, adding she looks forward to the day when a judge asks her to give an impact statement for sentencing purposes.
The pair said they owe it to Betty to see the case through. They told her such while visiting her, Fabian and Susan at Maple Hill Cemetery last week.
Immediately following the visit, they headed to a local greenhouse. There, Fields and Lyman purchased carnations for Betty and daisies for Susan with plans to lay them at the grave.
They hope to add Barbara’s favorite flowers in the near future.
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