Behavioral Warning Signs
Behavioral Warning Signs Some of these behavioral signs can show up at other stressful times in a child's life such as divorce, the death of a family member, friend or pet, or when there are problems in school, as well as when abuse is involved. Any one sign doesn't mean the child was abused, but several of them mean that you should begin asking questions. Do you notice some of the following behaviors in children you know well? Nightmares, trouble sleeping, fear of the dark, or other sleeping problems. Extreme fear of "monsters." Spacing out at odd times. Loss of appetite, or trouble eating or swallowing. Sudden mood swings: rage, fear, anger, or withdrawal. Fear of certain people or places (e.g., a child may not want to be left alone with a baby-sitter, a friend, a relative, or some other child or adult; or a child who is usually talkative and cheery may become quiet and distant when around a certain person). Stomach illness all of the time with no identifiable reason. An older child behaving like a younger child, such as bed-wetting or thumb sucking. Sexual activities with toys or other children, such as simulating sex with dolls or asking other children/siblings to behave sexually. New words for private body parts. Refusing to talk about a "secret" he/she has with an adult or older child. Talking about a new older friend. Suddenly having money. Cutting or burning herself or himself as an adolescent. If you have any questions about these or other signs and symptoms, please call the Stop It Now! Toll-Free Helpline at 1-888-PREVENT. SOURCE: Stop It Now!, www.stopitnow.com/warnings.html#watchout Tell authorities If you suspect an incident or ongoing sexual abuse is occurring, reported it to your local Police Department or call 911.