Parents take new precautions in Coralrose's neighborhood
By HEATHER ALLEN and ERIN BRYCE
heather.allen@heraldtribune.com
erin.bryce@heraldtribune.com
NORTH PORT -- Teresa Rowland wakes up in the middle of the night, panicked. Her eyes dart across the bedroom to a monitor on her dresser.
There she sees the image of her infant son sleeping soundly, his movements recorded by an infrared camera.
More than two weeks after 6-year-old Coralrose Fullwood was murdered, parents in this bedroom community remain on edge.
Here where basketball hoops and bicycles are popular lawn ornaments, parents are scared that the nightmare of the Follwood family could become their own.
Throughout the city, parents are checking on their children throughout the night, unable to sleep with ease.
In some homes, children are still crawling into bed with their parents, too afraid to sleep alone in their own bedrooms.
Other families have taken more dramatic steps to protect their home and children, purchasing additional locks for their windows and doors. And at least one family living near the wooded lot where Coralrose was found dead went so far to install a surveillance camera outside their home.
"I think everyone goes into override" in these situations, said Mary Jo Oswald, a family and consumer science agent with the University of Florida's extension office in Sarasota. "They are just traumatized by what has happened. Most people do not know how to even talk to their children about it, let alone process it themselves."
The fact that police aren't releasing much information about the progress of the investigation is only adding to the fear. North Port Police Chief Terry Lewis still will not name suspects or hint about whether he is closing in on making an arrest.
Regardless, Lewis hopes the safety precautions parents are taking continue. "Once we do make an arrest, I hope people maintain things they're doing forever. That should never, ever stop."
Meanwhile, security alarm companies are seeing an increase in calls from North Port residents. Shawn Kiss, owner of Ultimate Security Alarms in Port Charlotte, said he's getting more calls than ever from parents wanting routine maintenance on alarms installed by his company. And Rob Keefe with Sarasota-based EMG Alarm Specialist Corp. said he's received at least one call a day from North Port about installing a new alarm. Before the murder, his company "rarely" heard from potential North Port customers.
Coralrose's death added North Port to a growing list of communities changed by violent crimes against children.
Just this week, a man terrorized a one-room Amish schoolhouse in Pennsylvania, killing five girls and then himself. Last week, a man took six girls hostage inside a Colorado high school, fatally shooting one and killing himself.
The headlines have made parents aware that crimes don't only happen "somewhere else," but can happen in their own backyards, said Marsha Gilmer-Tullis, director of the family advocacy division at the Center for Missing & Exploited Children.
"The reality for parents, for everyone in society today, is that it does not matter. It really does not matter because tragedy can strike any community," Gilmer-Tullis said.
That awareness has brought more caution into homes like the Rowlands'.
After Carlie Brucia was found dead in Sarasota two years ago, the Rowlands took their two oldest sons to a safety class that teaches children how to escape a stranger's grasp.
The family is now bringing that same program to North Port. This Saturday, an instructor will be at the George D. Mullen Activity Center teaching the free seminar to North Port parents.
North Port was not always like this -- a place where safety is a constant concern.
When Roy Corbin moved to North Port nine years ago, the city was a sleepy retirement community. With just 12,000 residents at the time, there were more retirees than kindergarteners.
Six years later, the city's population has more than doubled. The median age of the estimated 50,000 residents is now 38. More than 8,000 students are enrolled in North Port's schools.
Coralrose's murder has made Corbin, a retiree, empathize with young parents.
"If I was in the position I would be a little nervous until this thing is solved," Corbin said. "I wouldn't want to be a parent with a child growing up in that neighborhood."
Life has changed in that neighborhood off Cartwright Lane, where Coralrose once laughed and played in mud puddles with her four siblings. The streets that were once filled with children on their bicycles are now empty.
Families like the Wades have armed their children with walkie-talkies and strict instructions to go straight to their friends' homes and back.
Residents like Hilda Archilla, who used to walk her shih tzu throughout the 6.5 miles of neighborhood streets, now won't venture beyond her road.
"It's a blow to this little area," said Pat Ierfino, who moved to the North Port neighborhood with her husband a year and a half ago from Long Island, N.Y. "There were kids all over the place."
It's like that citywide.
Susan Flynn, who lives near Cranberry Boulevard, four miles north, said she won't let her daughter go inside the neighboring child's home anymore because she doesn't want her out of sight. She gets up in the middle of the night to check on her daughter and ensure that the doors are locked.
"You're a little more careful with your kids," Flynn said.
City Commissioner Vanessa Carusone, who is the only elected city official with young children, said she re-examined her parenting and how often she sees her children after they go to sleep.
"Your whole lifestyle changes," Carusone said. "I think that the closure for the community will be when someone's apprehended. Until that happens, the city's going to be walking on eggshells."
From her desk at the University of Florida extension office, Oswald said typically a community will find some normalcy after an arrest is made or the media stops reporting the story.
"Some parents may say, 'You are never going to do this again. I'm not going to let you out of my sight.' In the long run, it's unhealthy," Oswald said. "You'll never get over it. You can never get back what you lost. But you can definitely expand on it and learn from it and grow with it."
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