Parents refuse to give up hope
Saturday, January 28, 2006
By Laura Arenschield
BROADWAY — Karen Riojas fans out photographs of her oldest daughter and gazes at them in heartbroken admiration.
The pictures are all she has for now. Her daughter, 23-year-old Julie Michelle Bullard, was kidnapped 23 days ago during a robbery at her boyfriend’s home.
In one picture, an infant Michelle Bullard snuggles between her mother and father.
In another, a teenage Michelle wears a gold cowboy hat, posing for a glamour shot.
Then there is Michelle on graduation day, wearing a black cap and gown, her trademark smile lighting up the camera.
“She had the most beautiful brown hair,” Riojas says. “And she had the most beautiful brown eyes.”
Her eyes glistening with tears, Riojas shakes her head and corrects herself.
“Has,” she says forcefully. “Michelle has the most beautiful brown hair and eyes.”
Nearly four weeks have passed since the kidnapping outside Broadway.
Searchers plan to spend today combing fields near where Michelle’s wallet was found this week.
Julian Bullard, Michelle’s father, said volunteers are welcome. They will meet between 8 and 9 a.m. at the intersection of Bogie Island Road and N.C. 53, he said.
They will look for any hint of what has happened to Michelle since the morning of Jan. 2.
It was about 1 a.m., and Bullard was watching a movie with her boyfriend, his roommate and a family friend. The robber, his face covered, walked into the home and waved a gun. He robbed them, bound the other three people with tape and put them in separate rooms. When the others broke free, Bullard was gone.
Since then, clues have trickled in, each one raising her family’s hope.
The tips started the day she disappeared: David Wilson, a Harnett County man who spent 23 years in prison for murder, shot himself inside his truck when a sheriff’s deputy started to approach him.
Riojas said Michelle didn’t know Wilson, but investigators pointed out the coincidence: Wilson, 49, committed suicide about six miles from where Bullard was last seen.
A Broadway convenience store manager later said Bullard and Wilson were in the store at the same time the night of Jan. 1 — hours before Bullard was kidnapped — but said the two did not come in together or talk while they were in the store.
Investigators later said there is no evidence Wilson robbed the home or took Bullard.
A few weeks later, a man working on his backhoe found Bullard’s wallet in a roadside ditch in the Cedar Creek community in eastern Cumberland County.
Searchers combed the area and found other items, including socks, a purse and boxer shorts. Debbie Tanna, spokeswoman for the Cumberland County Sheriff’s Office, said there is no evidence those items are linked to Bullard’s disappearance.
Horrible ups and downs
For Bullard’s parents, hearing each tip is like sitting on a nightmarish see-saw.
“You just hope someone’s going to wake you up,” Julian Bullard said Friday. “We go from day to day not knowing what day it is.”
The North Carolina branch of the Missing You Foundation, an organization that helps people with missing family members, posted fliers with Michelle’s picture around North Carolina.
Missing You also has organized searches near Broadway, where Bullard disappeared, and along Bogie Island Road, where her wallet was found.
Riojas said she knows the statistics: After 72 hours, the odds are slim that a missing person is still alive.
But slim odds are better than no odds, so Julian Bullard and Karen Riojas will spend today wading through the fields along Bogie Island Road.
Pleas on television
Every person who hears about Michelle’s disappearance is one more person who might know what happened to her, so Riojas has appeared three times on CNN and once on Fox News.
Riojas remembers sitting in front of the TV last summer, watching coverage of a teenager missing in Aruba. She remembers seeing the girl’s mother, remembers how the agony and frustration built on the woman’s face with every interview.
“And now here I am, going through it myself,” Riojas said. “No mother should have to spend the rest of her life wondering where her child is.”
Tanna, the Cumberland County Sheriff’s Office spokeswoman, said national coverage doesn’t hurt the case, but she doesn’t think it helps. She said detectives have not gotten meaningful tips from the shows’ viewers.
To Riojas, though, no chance is too slim.
“I’ll never turn down a chance to take Michelle’s story nationwide,” she said. “If I only focus locally, I might miss an opportunity to reach someone who knows something.”
She has a message for the kidnapper, one she has repeated over and over: “Actions speak louder than words,” she said. “Emphasize that. Actions speak louder than words.”
And neither parent will give up the search.
“I love Michelle,” Riojas said. “I love my baby. And I hope and pray I don’t have to spend the rest of my life asking: ‘Where is my baby?’”
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