After 14 years, Bullitt family seeks woman's remains
By Charlie White
The Courier-Journal
Sunday, January 13, 2008
For almost 14 years, the Kentucky family of Melisa Maureen Brady-Sloan has hoped and prayed she would be found after mysteriously disappearing from her Orlando, Fla., home in 1994 at the age of 23.
Now her relatives are simply hoping that the new DNA samples they've provided might find a match on a database of unidentified bodies discovered throughout the United States.
"It was just as if she dropped off the face of the earth," said her 72-year-old mother, Merle Brady, of Bardstown.
Brady said her worry over the years has been overwhelming. If it rains at night, she sometimes lies awake wondering if her youngest daughter is "standing somewhere under a stoop out of the rain."
"Does she have food? Does she have a place to sleep?" she said, recounting her worries in a recent interview. "Here I have a warm bed. I got food.
Does Melisa have all of this?"
Having lost another family member to violence -- the family patriarch, Francis "Frank" Brady, who was kidnapped from a Hardin County truck stop and murdered in Bullitt County less than three years before Melisa disappeared -- the family realizes that learning what happened to Melisa might not be easy to accept.
But their hope, they said, is to get answers, which is why Brady and one of Melisa's sisters, who lives in Cincinnati, traveled to Louisville recently to talk with The Courier-Journal. Her other sister joined in the discussion via conference call from her home in Nashville.
No one has ever been charged in Melisa's disappearance, although Orlando police say they've not ruled out foul play.
Melisa's Social Security number, credit cards and nursing license have not been used since she went missing.
"She's just gone," said Detective Andre Boren of the Orlando Police Department, who took over the case last summer.
Police have not named any suspects.
John Stewart Sloan, Melisa's husband at the time of her disappearance, has remarried and now lives in Bellingham, Wash.
Boren said they would like to talk with Sloan more about the disappearance, but that he hasn't cooperated during the recent review of the investigation.
Sloan could not be reached for comment. His father in Louisville did not reply to interview requests.
Before the disappearance
Melisa was born on the Fourth of July 1970 in Bardstown and graduated from Bardstown High School in 1988 and from Spencerian College in Louisville two years later.
Her mother and two sisters said she loved her work as a licensed practical nurse, especially when it came to older patients.
"She really connected with elderly folks, and they absolutely adored her," said the middle Brady sister, Melanie Drury, who now lives in Cincinnati.
Melisa's mother recalls her youngest daughter's concern for her future. "She told me, 'Mom, I'll never let you go to a nursing home. I'll take care of you,' " Merle Brady said.
In 1993, Melisa met and married Sloan in Louisville. They'd met while both worked nights at Tri-County Community Hospital, now Baptist Hospital Northeast, in La Grange, her family said.
He was a security guard, but soon after they married they moved to Florida, where he planned to study motorcycle mechanics.
Melisa's family said she had a sense of adventure -- she loved to travel, and she never met a stranger.
But she always kept in contact with her family, Drury said, especially after her marriage became difficult.
Boren said police were called to Melisa and John Sloan's home twice while they were in Florida for domestic disturbances.
During a subsequent visit by police, John Sloan told police that Melisa had packed her belongings and left him for another man, and that he last saw her on May 1. Boren said Sloan told police he didn't know the identity of the other man or how Melisa could be contacted.
The Bradys filed a missing persons report with Bardstown police, which faxed a copy to Orlando police.
While most of Melisa's possessions were gone from the apartment, Boren said "she didn't take her car and she didn't take her cat," which makes him question whether she left on her own.
John Sloan filed for divorce eight months after the Brady family reported Melisa missing, Boren said.
In November, Boren said he and another Orlando detective, Patrick Schneider, traveled across the country to the Washington home that Sloan shares with a new wife, but Sloan refused to speak with them.
Her father's murder
Less than three years before Melisa's disappearance, two jail escapees from Oklahoma kidnapped her father from a truck stop off I-65 in Hardin County and took him to the woods in southern Bullitt County. They shot Frank Brady twice and left him to bleed to death.
Michael St. Clair, one of 40 inmates on Kentucky's death row, has been sentenced to death three times for Brady's kidnapping and murder, but he will get a new kidnapping trial in September.
After two Hardin Circuit Court judges recused themselves in December, the state appointed Jefferson Circuit Judge Ann O'Malley Shake to the case.
St. Clair's accomplice, Dennis Reese, testified against him and is now serving life in prison without parole after pleading guilty to Brady's murder.
The Bradys have attended both men's trials to make sure justice is handed down to Frank's killers.
Michele Walker, the oldest Brady sister, said it's difficult to explain to others what their family has been through over the past two decades.
"I'll tell them my father was murdered in 1991, but the story gets worse -- my sister went missing in 1994," Walker said.
Drury said the family has "never really come up for air."
"It steals a part of you and it makes you ask, 'Why were we chosen?' " Despite that, she and other family members say the events have not shaken their belief in God.
"There's evil in this world," Merle Brady said, "but it's not God doing it."
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