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Child Sexual Abuse in Virginia
1 in 4 women and 1 in 5 men have been a victim of child sexual assault
Over half of women experienced sexual assault before the age of 13, as did 39% of men
71% of assaults against children were perpetrated by adults
Almost half of the perpetrators were identified as family members
Only 10% of perpetrators were strangers
About the Virginia Stop It Now! Campaign
In response to an objective of Sexual Violence State Plan for Virginia, a steering committee worked with VDH to decide how to implement a helpline service in Virginia. The committee then worked with a marketing firm to develop a campaign message to promote the helpline in Virginia.
Stop It Now! Billboard

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Stop It Now! Posters Click
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Stop It Now! Radio Spots
Public Service Announcements will be aired on radio stations in the Richmond area.
About the Stop It Now! Helpline
The Stop It Now! Helpline was established in 1995 as a toll-free resource for individuals with questions or concerns about child sexual abuse. The helpline is available for anyone concerned about sexually inappropriate behaviors in another adult, adolescent or child or in themselves. Professional staff provide an opportunity for you or any concerned caller to gather information, talk through a situation and explore options for taking action.
All calls are confidential. The helpline is available Monday-Friday, 9:00 AM - 6:00 PM at 1-888-PREVENT (1-888-773-8368).
Professionals working in the field of child sexual abuse prevention will answer your call. The person on the other end of the line will help you:
Know what to watch and listen for between an adult and child if abuse is happening.
Know the warning signs that a child has been abused.
Learn the signs to recognize in an adult if they are or are considering abusing a child.
Understand how to talk with someone you know who may be sexually inappropriate with a child.
Find out the difference between healthy sexual development in children and sexually abusive behaviors.
Talk about what you may be witnessing and help you decide if you are "over-reacting" to a situation and what may be your next step.
Talk you through your next step if you are thinking about touching a child in a sexual way.
Learn what kinds of help and treatment are available.
Get referrals to resources so that everyone in the abusing situation can get the help they need.
The Stop It Now! Helpline is designed for adults concerned about the inappropriate sexual behavior of someone around them and those at risk to perpetrate sexual violence. To report a suspected case of child sexual abuse, please call Child Protective Services Hotline at 800-552-7096. The Virginia Family Violence and Sexual Assault Hotline 800-838-8238 is still the best resource for victims.
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Warning Signs For An Adult With Sexual Behavior ProblemsSomeone you love may be acting in sexual ways that worry or confuse you. These behaviors may be a way for the person to ask for help. Many people with sexual behavior problems wish that someone had asked them what was going on. They wish they had known where to call and how to get help.
Do you know someone who:
Often has a "special" child friend, maybe a different one from year to year?
Spends most spare time on activities involving children or teens, rather than other adults?
Does not have any close adult friends?
Makes fun of a child's body parts, calls a child sexual names such as "stud," "whore," or "slut"?
Talks again and again about the sexual activities of children or teens?
Talks about sexual fantasies with children and is not clear about what's okay with children?
Was exposed to violence, pornography, or sexual behaviors as a child and has not dealt with it in any way?
Masturbates so much that it begins to get in the way of important day-today activities?
Downloads pornography off the Internet and is not willing to show it because children are involved?
Any one of these signs does not mean that a child is in danger. But if you see a few of these signs in someone you know, begin to ask questions. If you need help with how to approach the person or any other support, please call the Stop It Now! Toll-Free Helpline at 1-888-PREVENT.
Behavioral Warning Signs A Child May Have Been Abused
Some of these behavioral signs can show up at other stressful times in a child's life such as divorce, the death of a family member, friend or pet, or when there are problems in school, as well as when abuse is involved. Any one sign doesn't mean the child was abused, but several of them mean that you should begin asking questions.
Do you notice some of the following behaviors in children you know well?
Nightmares, trouble sleeping, fear of the dark, or other sleeping problems.
Extreme fear of "monsters."
"Spacing out" at odd times.
Loss of appetite, or trouble eating or swallowing.
Sudden mood swings: rage, fear, anger, or withdrawal.
Fear of certain people or places (e.g., a child may not want to be left alone with a baby-sitter, a friend, a relative, or some other child or adult; or a child who is usually talkative and cheery may become quiet and distant when around a certain person).
Stomach illness all of the time with no identifiable reason.
An older child behaving like a younger child, such as bed-wetting or thumbsucking.
Sexual activities with toys or other children, such as simulating sex with dolls or asking other children/siblings to behave sexually.
New words for private body parts.
Refusing to talk about a "secret" he/she has with an adult or older child.
Talking about a new older friend.
Suddenly having money.
Cutting or burning herself or himself as an adolescent.
Additional Information:
Websites
Stop It Now! Web page at
www.stopitnow.org
Virginia Sexual and Domestic Violence Action Alliance at
www.vsdvalliance.org
Virginia Department of Social Services at
www.dss.virginia.gov/family/cps
VDH sexual violence prevention information at
www.vahealth.org/civp/sexualviolence
Hotlines
Stop It Now! Helpline 888-773-8368
Virginia Family Violence and Sexual Assault Hotline 800-838-8238
Child Protective Services Hotline at 800-552-7096
Virginia Department of Health
Rebecca K. Odor, Director of Sexual & Domestic Violence Prevention
804-864-7740
Virginia Department of Health
Also posted in the Virginia State Topic. Originally Posted by Gaia